I have tried the start stop method and i have a few questions... 1) how long should i wait after going to the brink of ejaculation, stopping and then starting back up? I find that after the first time i stop myself, it only takes a second (literally) or a few strokes to bring me right back to the edge. I cant imagine stopping every second or two during sex with my girlfriend just to keep me from going over the edge...2)How long would it take to fix this problem of ejaculating before i want to? I have read the whole section on orgasm control and i just cant make it work...