I came across this wonderfully useful site and it helped me a lot with my relationship!
my question is: how do i make my girlfriend cum? we spent 5 months together and she NEVER cums when we have sex. she only cum if i practiced oral sex on her clit! please help us!
Ok well it's quite common for women not to orgasm during sex. The easiest and most common way for women to come is by playing with the clit. All women are different and some like clit play in different ways. Some like the foreskin of the clit to be pulled back and moistened, but some women hate that.
First of all, you have already achieved a lot by giving her lots of pleasure through oral sex. A lot of couples never even get that far! So it's no problem for her to have an orgasm with you. Now all you need to do is transfer the technique from your tongue to your fingers...
I would suggest that you forget about sex for the moment. Just practice a lot of massage on her clitoris with your fingers. Ask her if she can show you how exactly she likes to be stroked. Ask her to move your fingers in the correct way for her.
Then when you've practiced this a lot, you can try stroking her clit with your fingers while you're having sex. The best position for this is the X-position - see the sex tips page.
Try getting your girlfriend
Try getting your girlfriend to cum? During intercourse try stimulating her clit with your finger, I myself am a girl and have had the same problem before. Just try different things that you haven't tried before. Not necessarily meaning positions. I have noticed of me and my friends that are women we get pleasured more by the stimulation of the clit more than sex. Our clit is like the best feeling part of the female body just like the guys penis.
Getting her to cum
Listen,their are four things that you have to do.Number one is to use foreplay(i mean tease her,so that pleaser will be better for her and you).Number two,talk to her while you undress her(say things like i love you and i going to make you feel better then you ever have,these are the breast of a true woman.Number three is the position Doggy style or the lifted doggy position.That aims right at thier G spot.If you can last five minutes without stopping,awsome.Number four is while you are in the lifted doggy position tell her that your ok with getting wet,that you want to get wet.At the end she will cum about a good 2-3 times.Remember to wait about 20 seconds after she cum before going another round.
You will leave like a Champion.