We know there's a burning sex question on your mind right now and you need an answer quick. Before you ask a sex question in our forum, please check if your question has already been answered in the following FAQ. We get these same questions all the time...
Sex Questions FAQ
Q. I'm male. How can I last longer during sex? When I'm having sex I come / have an orgasm too quickly? How can I solve premature ejaculation? etc etc.
A. You need a series of techniques known as Male Orgasm Control. The single most effective technique is to Relax your PC muscle. After that you want Slow Breathing and Third Eye Focus. Read the whole section on orgasm control. Practice these first on your own during masturbation, then apply during sex.
Q. I'm female. Why can't I have an orgasm during sex? Why can't my partner make me come?
A. The simplest, quickest, easiest way for a woman to have an orgasm is by gently stroking clitoris with fingers. This can be done during or not during sex. Best is to practice first not during sex. Read the whole clitoris section and try out everything there.
Q. I'm male. Recently I've had problems keeping a hard erection during sex. What's wrong?
A. Read the practical erectile dysfunction tips page. On top of this information, men's sexual desire gradually lessens as he ages. This can be kept in check with a healthy diet and regular cardiovascular exercise.
Q. I'm female. I'd like to have a female ejaculation (aka squirting) / I've just squirted but I don't understand what happened / How can I squirt more?
A. Female ejaculation and G-spot massage go hand in hand. Usually female ejaculation happens after the G-spot is massaged. The main barrier to squirting is releasing the 'pee feeling'. Read more on the G-spot page.
After reading the information on the site here, if you still have a problem, feel free to ask a sex question.
Try to give as much detail as possible: particularly you and your partner's age, and anything you've tried to solve your problems with so far. The more detail you give us the more likely it is we can help.
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