hi, im 18 and a virgin,dont know much about sex, when my boy freind rub/sucks my clit it feels so good bujut after a few minutes im done, my clit get so sensetive and i cant bare him touch it again, he says all other girls he been with before, used to like it and he could do it for as long as he wanted , non of them got that sensetive but only me, im so worried that if i get satisfied and done that quickly how it would be when i have a proper entercourse, plz help me ad explain dose it have anythng to do with proper sex, am i normal? will i have a normal pleasurable entercourse ? y i get satisfied in a few minutes when he rubs my clit, is it the same with all gals? i have seensome porn clips that the guy sucks the clit for ages and the woman enjoyes it, what is it all about? anyone plz help me out, im so worried :(
What happens is you have an orgasm after a few minutes, which is perfectly normal.
Then after your orgasm, your clit becomes too sensitive too touch. Again this is perfectly normal. It's the same way guy's penises become too sensitive to touch after orgasm.
What's happening with other women your boyfriend mentioned, is they're not having an orgasm as quick as you.
So, what you want is simply to not have an orgasm too quick. This is pretty easy to fix.
Have a read through the PC muscle relaxation section. That page is written for men, but the PC muscle works just the same for women and the clitoris.
Put simply, relax your PC muscle while your boyfriend is stroking / sucking your clit, and keep it relaxed. Also, breathe slowly and don't tense the other muscles in your body (especially legs, thighs, ass).
This should help you to last longer.
Then when you've had enough and are ready to have an orgasm, simply tense your PC muscle, straighten your legs and tighten everything else up.
At first it may take some practice but soon you'll get the hang of it.
What? This is awesome!!! This is like worrying that your body is too hot.
This won't be bad for intercourse! Touching your clitoris makes you orgasm fast so you become sensitive. Intercourse will not make you orgasm so fast. Actually, most women can't orgasm from intercourse if you don't touch their clitoris with your finger at the same time.
If he really likes spending a lot of time on that, there's other things he could love a lot more...
thn u sooooooooooo mu h, both of u, u guyz made me feel so delighted,may god blessu, i was so thaughtful, thinking and thinking about it and made me feel sick, i was so worried to get married, after listening to u two i feel like im soooo normal now, so tension free,
kisses and huggs from mey to u darlings :)