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Two different questions about the clit.

Submitted by Anonymous on Mon, 05/12/2008 - 00:03

I have been having oral sex with my girlfriend for about two weeks now and I have no trouble getting her to have a g-spot orgasm, mainly because I can easily find her g-spot, but I have trouble giving her a clitoris orgasm. The reason being that I can't seem to find her clit. I look for it everytime but I can't seem to find any foreskin to pull back to find the clit, I am not sure what to do.

Also, does it really matter? Is there any big difference, or any at all, between a g-spot and a clitoris orgasm, or are they just two different ways to get to the orgasm? If they are different then which one is more pleasurable for the girl?

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#1Submitted by infosex on Mon, 05/12/2008 - 17:50.

No it doesn't matter! The

No it doesn't matter! The only thing that really matters is pleasure. The methods or techinques you use to get there are only a means to an end. There's a lot of info written here about the clit, because usually that's the easiest and most reliable way for a woman to come.

But if your girlfriend only has G-spot orgasms then that's fine. Generally (and I stress the word generally) women report that G-spot orgasms are more pleasurable than clit orgasms. But again, all women are different, and some women might find clit orgasms mindblowing and g-spot orgasms boring...

Also check this page on the difference between G-spot and Clit orgasms.

As for not being able to find your girlfriends clit - just ask her. I'm sure she knows!