G-spot massage in the missionary position

This is another position you can use for G-spot massage. The woman lies on her back, the man kneels before her and uses two fingers to stroke her G-spot.

1. Improve on the Missionary

In the standard missionary, the woman lies on her back with her legs resting on the bed. To improve this, she can pull her knees close up to her chest. This increases pressure in and around her pelvis, pushes her G-spot further out into her vaginal canal, and increases the chances of orgasm. It's basically like an upsidedown doggy position.
It may help to place a pillow or two underneath her hips. She can also move her hips around and push onto the man's fingers for extra pressure.

2. Find her G-spot

The man sits between her legs and gently places one or two fingers inside her vagina (no long or sharp nails please!). He should go in about two to three inches. The G-spot feels like a rough, bumpy area about one inch in diameter, and becomes slightly more noticeable as she becomes more excited.

3. He massages her G-spot

The man rubs his fingertips back and forth over her G-spot, making a "come here" motion with his two fingers pointing slightly upward. The massage should be gentle at first to avoid any discomfort (usually caused by not enough foreplay), but after a minute or two he should use firm pressure. The G-spot only responds to firm, heavy massaging.

Foreplay builds your sexual excitement and fills your vaginal and clitoral areas with blood - the equivalent of a man getting an erection. Lots of foreplay makes any sexual touch much more pleasurable. If you go straight to G spot massage with no foreplay it won't work! Check our foreplay page for ideas.

4. She relaxes her PC muscle and lets go of the 'pee feeling'

The next steps are the same as G-spot massage in the doggy position as discussed previously.

Something else you can do to intensify G-spot orgasm is:

Talking during foreplay

There's lots of things you can do to spice it up during foreplay. One is to describe in intimate detail what you want your partner to do, or if you're the male partner you can describe what you're going to do. Talk about feelings, pleasures, actions, describe orgasm if you want. Describe the foreplay actions as well as the sex actions. Say stuff like "Imagine you feel the tension building up inside you, getting nicer and nicer. My hands are all over you, massaging everywhere. Then slowly I run my hands around your thighs, in between your legs" etc etc. Keep going like this, describing the whole experience before you start any of it. Just hold each other and kiss while you're talking about it. You can keep going right up to "and then you let everything go and you feel your body exploding in pleasure, waves of orgasmic delight crashing through your whole being. Now imagine having this feeling over and over again." etc etc. Use your imagination! Its kind of talking dirty mixed with visualisation.
If you are having difficulty getting over the pee feeling, you can foreplay-talk about letting go and getting over it.
Also try this foreplay-talk together somewhere that's not your bedroom, in a club, in public, then go home and act out the ideas you came up with. Or do it over the phone or internet chat. Build up is everything!