Why do i make him stop?

As you said you've never had an orgasm before, i think, it could be a fear of the uknown... You know, people are always scared of something new, different. Even though it's your husband we are talking about (so i take it you trust him), sometimes it's hard to psychologically 'let go'... You might be scared of actually having an orgasm as it would mean letting somebody else being in control...like showing them your vulnerable and fragile side.

Also, some women tend to think too much (as we are always blamed for lol)... so u might be thinking it's taking too long and your partner must be getting annoyed or bored... which is an utter nonsense lol, but loads ppl think that...

Just try to relax, communicate with your partner, tell him what it is that bothers you and let him assure you (most importantly, believe! what he is saying is true! instead of assuming he's being polite) that it really turns him on seeing how much pleasure he's causing you... After all, you know it yourself how sexy it can be when you see the passion in his eyes, when you hear the little moans he makes when you are the one touching him and pleasuring him. There's nothing sexier than knowing that it's you who is causing it, that it's you whom he so desperately wants! So just don't forget it works both ways.

Oh and the simplest thing - when you feel like you could come, just little touches like a rising your pelvis by putting your hand under it, or putting a little pressure with your flat palm on your belly should do the trick. Just follow your instincts really and be open to experiments. Good luck x