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please help is there something wrong with me
im a male and i have a girlfriend that i am madly inlove with. the thing is i can be having sex for 3 hours and not cum some of the time idk what is wrong with my i stay hard as a rock and i can jerk off for the same amount of time and still not cum some of the time i have no problem staying hard and the sensation stays amazing throughout the entire encounter what could be my problem
im 20 years old im trying every sex possition i can think of we got the kamasutra and sex toys but we just go at it we have sex misionary, doggy side by side, cowgirl reverse cowgirl everything when i jerk off it takes me sometime realy fast to come and othertimes like forever like i cant even come im only twenty years old i just wanna see my girlfriend come many times idk i feel like this could even be a problem for me this is driving me and my girlfriend crazy i dont want this to end because i feel impadent and i stay erect longer than a pornstar
I am the person who first posted it are you guys not taking this seriously idk what to do like I said I really need help and I'm desprate please help me thank you
Mate, you are not the only one. It's not a bad thing though! She probably loves it!
Keep trying new things, aim to please her and you will be surprised how often things sneak up on you.
When I started I had this 'problem', and quite frankly I thought the same thing. It isn't anything medical or really a major problem though - I just gave it a while and everything sorts itself out. Find a position that works for you and go for it!
this might sound like im messing with you but stop masturbating and see what that does
my boyfriend has the same problems if he's done it recently
but i wouldnt call it a problem
its awesome :)

What age are you?
What position or positions are you having sex? Do you find some positions make the problem worse?
When you masturbate can you come quickly?