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G-spot orgasm using shower-head
Wed, 06/17/2009 - 15:17
When I was 14 and not yet sexually active I found out one day my shower head felt very nice against my private areas, I began to experiment more and more with this until I learned putting it on full blast and massaging my vagina and allowing it to shoot up inside would cause an intense orgasm, my butt would even get really hot. Over about a year of doing this I realized the feelings were getting less intense, and very disappointing, I also noticed my vagina was less pink and sort of stretching. I Stopped at this point but I feel it was too late. I am now 26 Years old and still unable to orgasm. I can get a very small clitoral orgasm if I do it manually. I was wondering if I had made my nerves lose sensitivity or if it is actually possible that I damaged my G-Spot as it seems there is some extra pink flesh that is visible on my vaginal opening could it be I shifted my G-Spot forward, mangled it with the water pressure,or made it useless? This is a very serious question I have been stressing over for a long time. If anyone can offer some advice it would be greatly appreciated.
Fri, 06/19/2009 - 14:23
#2
OMG! I am having the same problem as you and I'm 26yrs old now to. I never even thought the fact I rarely have orgasms had anything to do with the shower head, but now that I read your email I'm really worried. If you get an answer to your question please be sure and let me know...thanks!
Fri, 06/19/2009 - 14:33
#3
For poster #2, the same question: what size was the shower head? Small enough to insert directly into your vagina?
Sat, 06/20/2009 - 23:25
#4
when younger i found rubbing myself felt nice. about 14 aswell. adn i have the same problem having gone slightly loose and skin has stretched. im only 17 now but feel as though ive put myslf down by making skin strech, & feel as though this put boys off, ive also never had an orgasm through sex, i feel as though too much manual work when younge has ruined sex for ever.. please help.
Sat, 06/20/2009 - 23:47
#5
"when younger i found rubbing myself felt nice. about 14 aswell. adn i have the same problem having gone slightly loose and skin has stretched. im only 17 now but feel as though ive put myslf down by making skin strech, & feel as though this put boys off, ive also never had an orgasm through sex, i feel as though too much manual work when younge has ruined sex for ever.. please help."
For poster #4, ohh, are you saying you also used the shower head?
The skin of your vagina will stretch and loosen a small amount as your get older, this is natural.
As for not orgasming through sex, this is also normal (some surveys say 80% of women don't orgasm through intercourse alone).
Best thing to do is get in touch with your clit and your G-spot.
When you say "too much manual work when younger" are you talking about the shower head? Or something on your clit?
Wed, 09/02/2009 - 17:36
#6
Hi infosex.
Shame the ladies have not replied. Hopefully they soon will.
I once saw a lady do this in the shower. They dont insert the shower head. It is used to direct the water stream at the clitoris, at a pleasing distance, depending on the ladies choice.
The other technique involves pressing the showerhead up against the vaginal entrance- not inserting it. As the pressure builds the vagina opens slightly, and water gushes into the vagina. This is pleasurable I imagine. The lady then moves the showerhead away, and contracts her muscles, expelling the water.
At the time she was just douching. I came to realise later that what I had witnessed could also be a female masterbation technique. What I read above confirms it
Sun, 09/27/2009 - 02:04
#7
i wanna know if this screws up ur sex life because ive tried it before
Mon, 11/02/2009 - 02:14
#8
i finger my self and often use the water head not puting it in though will that mean i will not have orgasems im 17 also
Mon, 11/02/2009 - 19:16
#9
Putting a shower jet of water onto your clitoris or labia is fine, as long as it's not too powerful or too hot. If you feel any pain stop right away.
If you insert the shower head into your vagina and run the water, there could be a problem - the inside of your vagina has very few temperature sensitive nerves (apart from the lower/outer third of the vagina) so you may not be able to sense how hot the water is. You could scald the internal tissue without knowing it.
Also, during sexual excitation sometimes the inside of the vagina widens (known as tenting or ballooning) the reason for which is not clear. This means that you might fill the inside of your vagina with very hot water without realising it and cause scalding internally.
So using the shower head externally should be fine. If you enjoy the sensations on your g-spot, use a g-spot massager or vibrator.
Sat, 11/21/2009 - 21:14
#10
When I was younger, I did this also. I had the showerhead outside. I am now 25 and have no issues with orgasiming during sex.
Wed, 11/25/2009 - 20:57
#11
When i was 14 i did the same thing but im 18 now and i still get orgasms
Thu, 11/26/2009 - 09:02
#12
This is nuts!!! Well im sure that everything is fine masturbation is actually good as long as u enjoy it soo the problem isn't the shower head or water pressure something else must be wrong because i've been doing the same ting since i was 15 and i'm 25 and i still get great orgasms. You ladies please try relaxing and don't think of the problem just enjoy the moment and maybe it'll work!!!
Tue, 06/29/2010 - 04:33
#13
20 minutes of exercise before sex is supposed to help :) like gymnastics or something like that. Try it?
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What size was the shower head? Was it small enough that you were able to insert it into your vagina? If so, did you insert it right in?