My partners aren't much of moaners?

Well. It isn't exactly an expectation, but it might be the case that it was porn that made moans(and other naughty sounds on that matter) my main turn-on to an extent that actually all othe

I'd really rather if you'd tell me some method on how to make my partners more comfortable with themselves and myself so that they won't have any reason to hold back with their voice ;)

I've recently started seeing a girl and I feel the same way as you. Something about the sensation of hearing her moan drives me crazy, and if anything, makes me want to do it more. Not for me, but because I know she is loving it and I want her to be happy. I am a HUGE believe in foreplay;in fact, I concentrate on fully satisfying her with a plethora of orgasms through various techniques including oral before we even have sex, so when we do get to it, every time I touch her or penetrate her she has a slew of multiple orgasms. I talked to her about the noise thing because at first she was quiet, which I wasn't used to, and she said she was nervous and didn't want others to hear her. Eventually I showed her a technique I use that she wouldn't be able to help herself, and she was yelling so loud her friend heard us from down the hall when she went to the bathroom in the middle of the night...It really does depend on the person, and most importantly their comfort level, but some techniques will bring out the beast in a woman that not even she can control   :P  :)

I am a girl, and I was usually almost silent except for some heavy breathing during masturbation, and initially when my boyfriend and I got into heavy foreplay activity. I found out he was almost silent too, and we had a discussion about it. Not a totally serious, demanding thing at all, just a playful conversation talking about why we always were and dispelling alot of the reasons behind it, such as being afraid people would hear, just being uncomfortable, etc. For us, we had both grown up in very restrictive christian households where any noise like that would've given away that we each (seperately of course) started masturbating at a young age, completely naturally. We talked it out, and we each decided to try being more vocal, and we found that it made the experience even more pleasurable than before! A good tactic to use is to establish rules about noise, such as only being completely noisy when completely alone (to whatever degree you want to take that, ie alone in the house, alone in the apartment building, alone in the room, whatever both of you are comfortable wth. Tell your partner that they should try moaning or making noise to see if it feels good for them! Don't ask for yourslef, ask for them, it will everything go alot smoother, with no hard feelings involved. Tell them to really concentrate on the emotions that moaning creates for or illicits from them. Always remember to keep your partner's best interests in mind, and if they aren't comfortable making noise (as many are), then try to find things about them that are even sexier in real life than your fantasies of moaning. If you still can't stand it, imagine all the things they would be moaning if they felt comfortable with it, or imagine yourself and them in the sexiest scenes you've watched, or heard !;) HAVE FUN!