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male - last too long?

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Wed, 05/14/2008 - 13:45
Anon

I just had sex with the guy I have been seeing for a while. While it was good for me, he never finished. As good as it was, after a while I couldnt help but wonder if he would get his because it was taking forever. Should i be insulted that he didnt orgasm? Was it something I was doing?

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Wed, 05/14/2008 - 15:40
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Anonymous

Don't feel insulted. Especially if he has been practicing holding ejaculations off. For one, I read in a health article if a man holds them off often for the partner, it is way harder for him to finish if finish at all. And that it takes practice to get it back normal.

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Wed, 05/14/2008 - 15:46
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infosex
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Yeh it's fine. Once a guy learns to control orgasm, sometimes he can have sex and then simply not have an orgasm.

The reason you have to ask is because, for the vast majority of men, sex always ends in orgasm, so society and general media put across the assumption that for men, sex always leads to orgasm.

So don't feel insulted! The best thing is to simply ask him about it...

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