I can't cum, and i love it!
Hi, im 22 and iv been having sex for about 7 years. At first i thought i just wasn't doing it right but soon i started to realise that it didn't matter in what position i was in or who with...i can't feel sex! I can feel a mans dick around the lips but any further than that, nothing!
One of the worst things about it is i do get turned on by people and things...im increadibly horny thinking about people reading about my pussy right now! But there is no realise from that hornyness, no outlet for it.
I have ALOT of sex, infact i do porn as a living and i love it, of corse i get paid alot as i can go for ever and iv practiced hard to get a convincing orgasim face. I love knowing that someones hard pulsing dick is deep inside meand i love being told what to do to make them blow their load inside me.
Sadly guys seem to feel guilty that i don't feel what i'm ment to, or maybe in some way they feel inadaquet even though i always make them aware that its impossible for me to cum.
So if anyone is in the same boat as me...or gets chance to fuck someone like me...just go for it! I still get horny and wet at the thought of having sex and it turns me on when i make you come.
I wont get the same pleasure as other people, but my pleasure comes from knowing i make hundrends of people world wide reach for the tissues...maybe even a few reading this.
Keep me horny BJ xXx
hmm... Your story is intresting I am a guy and im young not very experienced but hear me out anyway. I'm 21 years old and am intrigued by what you wrote, I'm wondering have you ever had sex with someone you really cared about and were emotionally involved with cause maybe for you it will take more then physical pleasure, you might need emotional stimulation as well as physical stimulation. Just a thought.
I'm in the same boat. I feel nothing except when my guy plays with my clit. I kind of have a hard time with that too but it is possible. I love that.
I love making the guys cum too, its a great experence, we girls have all the power. It's a great feeling.
um i dont mean to offend anyone, but i'm very uncomfortable and shy about any probelms i might have. I was considering posting a question so that someone could maybe give me some insight, but im starting to not feel as comfortable with this website anymore because of posts ive been reading lately. People like whoever posted this are using unproffessional speech and talking like this is a porn site. It is not and i think it would be more respectful of people who come to this site for help for people who are posting things be more professional and not write something to make some random person to masturbate to
Believe or not, the lower third of the vagina has all the touch sensitive nerve endings. You're not unusual - you're completely normal. There are very few touch sensitive nerve endings further inside. The vagina is not lined all the way along with sexually sensitive nerves.
The G-spot is pressure sensitive and responds differently to the vaginal entrance, i.e., it responds to heavy, firm pressure and stroking.
The cervix and uterus are also sensitive but far less so than the clit and g-spot.
Agreed, this is not a porn site, although it is a sex information website, so by necessity it involves detailed descriptions of sex acts.
Feel free to post your question, however uncomfortable the issue may be, remember you can post anonymously.
Any offending posts or unsuitable material will be removed by the moderators.
Remember there are a huge range of attitudes to sex, some are more/less graphic/vulgar than others. 
Hmmmmm.....There are several things that sort of "concern" me about your post. But, before (or perhaps instead of, I'm not sure yet!) I say anything else, I want to tell you that when I was your age (early 20's) I didn't think that I was "capable" of having an orgasm either! At first I was sure that there was something "wrong" with me anatomically...lol....only to figure out as I got older that the only real problem I had was the fact that I was brought up with all the same taboos that other girls of my generation were taught! (All the usual B.S. about how "Good girls don't _______"; just fill in the blank with ANY sex act and that's about the sum of it.) The thing is that even if you think that you're extremely open-minded, which you no doubt are since you've chosen a career in the sex industry, the issues or beliefs that shape our ability to really let go and enjoy, in fact REVEL in, our sexuality are so deeply subconscious that it's nearly impossible for us to be aware of each and every one of them.
This is why women hit their "sexual peak" in their 30's! By then, we've learned what turns us on and hopefully, we've become a lot less uptight about a)our bodies, b)our sexuality and c)we've got a much more accurate and much less skewed and screwed up image of ourselves as others see us! We're finally able to just have FUN and not spend every moment wondering "Can he see the cellulite on my ass?"; "Oh god...can he tell that my left breast is bigger than my right one?"; "Damnit...I think that I have a zit popping up right there...god, please, don't let him touch it!!! He'll be SO grossed out by me!"; "Oh shit...what was that noise? Did my...'coochie' just make that SOUND? I'm SO horrified!" 
Now that I'm older I tend to think to myself...."Oh HELL YEAH! Git your ass over here baby and let me show you what I want to do to you!" And as a result of my more relaxed attitude and the realization that even my imperfections are just perfect the way they are....I'm MUCH more orgasmic! I suppose though, that it's probably only a person who's never HAD an orgasm who can say, "I can't cum and I love it!" Once you've had an orgasm....you'll wonder what in the heck you were thinking during your "Life BEFORE Orgasm!" and you'll wonder just how many of these "orgasms" you must have missed out on! Trust me...you will!
Please know that I really don't want to criticize or say anything that might be hurtful to you, sweetie, but I would be concerned for (and a little afriad OF?) ANYone who seems to get off more on the power that thier sexuality gives them over other people....instead of recognizing that sexuality is only ONE little-bitty, teensy-weensy portion of one's entire being. If what you do for a living becomes how you define yourself as a human being....there might be some cause to be concerned; it might be time to find someone to talk to outside of the industry who can act as a sounding board. You know, someone who you can bounce your feelings about who you are and what you're all about off of and get some kind of feedback about where you want the REST of your life to go. I mean, think about it.....just what IS the retirement age for your average porn star? Anyone know what becomes of them after they finish their career in "film"? Sure, the money's probably great and if you're smart and save, invest and are very careful that $ can take care of you for a long time afterwards. But, back to the point...someday in the future when you find a man that you want to spend, if not your life....then a LOT of time, with ~ trust me when I tell you that he's probably not gonna just shrug it off when you say, "Oh baby, it's okay! Don't worry! I just can't cum; I've always been like this. But, really...over the years, I've managed to do a REALLY convincing fake orgasm face....you won't even know that I'm not getting off!" In fact, if he's got loads of self-esteem, he'll quite likely wonder what's WRONG with you....and if not? Well, then he'll wonder what's wrong with him! And either way....it's not going to make him feel good.
My only hope, I suppose, is that as you get a little bit older (and yes, more mature even though I know that it makes me sound like a total BORE and a complete bitch to say that!..lol...) that you'll realize that not being able to orgasm is NOT necessarily a "good" thing or anything to brag about. There are lots of women who are unable to and their psyches are severely injured by what they see as a "fault" of theirs, rather than placing the blame where it belongs...on an uptight society with a misplaced sense of "propriety" and "decency". It's great that you enjoy the fact that you're attractive and that you're capable of becoming aroused; it gives me hope that someday you'll discover just what you've been missing all this time. And I also think that you'll discover (if you do a little research?!) that the most famous stars of porn are often the ones known for their amazingly photogenic and AUTHENTIC orgasms!!! The girls who make the bucks are the ones who really, HONESTLY come when they umm.....have intercourse on camera!...
Best of luck to you sweetie...and please make sure that you take care of yourself, first and foremost.
Holy fuck thats hot, got me reaching for tissues...