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how to be a totally straight woman
Wed, 10/14/2009 - 17:26
I love my husband ever much. I don't want to leave him. But I can't stop daydreaming about other women. I think the best thing to do is try to be more attracted to men. He said that maybe a need a girlfriend. But I don't want to complicate things for our marriage or our children. I just get so grossed out by other men. He is special. We have a wonderful sex life. A few months back we had a foursome and it was great. But now I can't stop thinking about how I would like an intimate relationship with another woman. I don't really have any good friends that are girls. I would like another girl to just hang out with but I keep haveing these bad urges and stuff and end up not hanging out with them anymore. What I guess I am asking is if anyone has advise to get over this homosexual urges so I can hang out with other women but not get in a sexual relationship. It seems evey time I find a new friend she ends up bi or gay. I think my first step would be to find a straight friend I like. What advise can you give me?
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In general, society frowns upon homosexual and polygamous relations. This is a product of thousands of years of religious oppression of sex. So your desire to suppress sexual feelings for other women is at least in part caused by the moral whims of the particular culture you are exposed to.
If you feel that getting involved with another woman will lead to you leaving your husband and children, then it's probably not a good idea.
If it's just playing around, and your husband is ok with it, then there is no reason not to.
If you find a straight friend, what's to stop your own urges? What if she turns out to be bi anyway and you just didn't notice?
Main thing to remember is, when you start to get involved with someone, ask yourself, who will be hurt by this?