Can virgins still use a vibrator & will they still be a virgin?
I'm a 18 year old female virgin and I want to now if i should buy a vibrator, but will I still be a virgin if I use a vibrator?
Wow!!! That is one of the DUMBEST fucking quwstions i have ever heard. Do you even know what sex is?
Sex, as deined by Noah Webster, is the sexual intercourse between 2 occupants.
Now let me dumby it down even more for you, and any other idiots that have the moronic questions. Until someones dick, not dildo but a live penis, has entered you vagina U R A VIRGIN!!!-UR DUMB, but a virgin!
For all people, men and women, who r reading this thinking i'm a mean bitch. BITE ME!
But, mean exterior aside, it is good to ask questions. That is something that many (mostly women) are afraid to do!
But that's still a stupid question!
well I don't think your a bitch, but you definetly need some lessons in sensitivity for sure. By the way, if you plan on continuing to slander others by calling them dumb, I would suggest using complete sentances, correct terms, correct spelling, and use words that actually fit there meaning. to finish, there is a saying I have learned as a child, "better to be thought a fool, than to open your mouth a prove it!", sorry to say, but you just proved it.
My opinion..like they said before w/o mean ways to say it. With a penis you are NOT a virgin, with a vibrator you technicaly still BUT your hymen shows the oposite. Like if you are not virgin. Lets say that you "loose it" with a silicon one.
There's another thing no body likes to mention: you are "half virgin" just to make a name to it... if you do all that it takes(foreplay) with someone else (including anal penetration) but with out vaginal penetration ..now, thats depends in society or cultures in order to ascept it.
So in both, vibrator &/or foreplay or anal penetration...you are technicaly a virgin, but NOT 100% ;)
There are some nasty comments on here, its really hurtful, she asked because she didnt know. I think its discusting that you can make fun of her when she was a little confused. Virgins can use vibrators and will still be virgins.
listen, technically you lose it, your hymen breaks. but your body is your body and no man stuck their junkk up there so, in another sense your a virgin.
I'm a virgin. i didnt know how to post a topic.
but this topic is pretty close, anyway.
I am 19 years old
female
and a virgin, i brought a dildo viabrator combo, only use the viabrator part because i am too damn fucking chicken to stick the purple thing up there and tear it. I have felt it bend with my fingers but once i reach an ouch factor i stop and want to just stop masturbating, completely makes me wanna just stop and it hurts so i wanna cry hahah, im a wuss. anyway i do use lube and i get very wet but still no sucess. it makes me frusterated. i just want to get it over with so when my first real time comes around i can enjoy it and not be in pain. is their anyway besides lube that i can break it or move it that doesnt make me wanna squeeze my legs tight and never open them again. I HATE VAGINAL PAIN.
i just want to say i can help get rid of vaginal pain by helping u with your first time i myself am 20
Don't be afraid of the pain. If you save it for your first time, you might have a more enjoyable experience when it happens. Just make sure you tell your guy to take it REAL slow and to be GENTLE. It will hurt, nothing you can do about it. But if you don't think about it and enjoy the company your with, you'll break through it and enjoy it. If you keep worrying about it though, it might turn into an ugly experience, so just relax and focus on the mood. Also, try to talk a lot with your partner. Communication is so important, and it'll make it easier for you.
Also, if you plan to have your first time with a special guy you like, he might find it more attractive knowing you haven't broken your hymen yet. A lot of guys do. Only some that are hemophobic (not homophobic) might not be so much in to it.
If you plan to have your first with a guy you picked at a bar though, then this shouldn't matter as much. Jump on the bed with your vibrator in and get it over with. Hahaha. (Please don't)
I find it really funny that your comment about using correct words included an INCORRECT homonym. And its spelled "definitely", not "definetly." Too bad you opened your mouth.
I tried several times to "lose it" with my boyfriend, but his penis was just too big. It hurt wayyyy too much. We broke up, and eventually I lost my virginity with another guy who had a smaller penis and was considerably more experienced than the first guy. what helped make it less painful was him putting my knees over his shoulders while in missionary. For some reason, it just slid in easily from that angle.
To put it in a far kinder way than the self-proclaimed "bitch" who posted earlier, there are many technical definitions on what exactly constitutes a loss of virginity, depending on all sorts of social, religious, and personal factors. If a woman is a lesbian or bisexual, and only has "sex" with other girls, or her life-partner, is she still technically a virgin? Of course not! If her female partner brought her to orgasm through stimulation, or the use of toys, or whatever, and if both of them are confident in saying that they had "sex", then why should there be any question of whether she is a virgin or not? As for straight females, the simplest way I always remember is penile penetration= devirginization. If a woman has never had sex with a man before, but uses a vibrator to reach orgasm, she is still a virgin. Whether she wants to save real sex for marriage, or is just not comfortable with the idea (very common, as sex is just as much of an emotional attachment as a physical one), she will be a virgin until her vagina is penetrated by a man's penis. In some cases, if a staight woman has anal sex before vaginal sex, this can also constitute as a loss of virginity, depending on the mindset of the woman or the couple. Virginity in itself is really a mental thing more than a physical one. Some would say a gorl loses her virginity when her hymen is broken, but that alone cannot be a test for virginity. True, many women's hymen's are broken for the first time during intercourse with their life partner or spouse, but many others' are broken or worn away during masturbation, trauma to the area (common in gymnastics and horsebackriding, usually not painful, despite the name: trauma). This is all dependent on whether the girl is even born with a hymen. (and many girls are not!) So in short, if you in your own head can confidently say you've had sex with another person, then you are no longer a virgin, until then, don't worry about pleasuring yourself, as it builds a lot sexual drive for that magical first time when it finally happens! Enjoy, and good luck for the future!
TO THE YOUNG WOMAN WHO ASKED THE QUESTION IN THE FIRST PLACE:
You will be a virgin until a man (or woman) takes your virginity from you. Until you have sex with someone, you will remain a virgin. Vibrators are just a form of masturbation hun, so no worries. BUT...if you want technicals, here goes: There is a paper thin patch of flesh in a girl's vagina. My apologies, I do not know exactly what it looks like, what it is, or what it's called, but i do understand it is there. It breaks with the entrance of a penis, and in the old days, woman were "inspected" to insure they were still innocent in the eyes of God, bla bla bla. It can be broken with the use of a tampon, with yours or someone else's finger, even riding a horse really fast. It's very sensitive. It bleeds when it is broken, which is why some women bleed for the first time when they lose their virginity. So if you wanted to be 100% virginial....then you aren't (to someone in like the 1800s lol) if this flesh has been torn or broken. So your vibrator may break this patch. But there's no need to worry about it. You play with that thing all day and night until you're ready to share yourself with someone else. Hope this helps.
p.s. this is a site to help people, not to bash others. Please respect that. If you're looking for a fight, go have one with someone who wants it too.
if u don't put it in.... just use it on ur clit