What is Female Ejaculation?

Sometimes during sex, women eject a fluid known as female ejaculate or female come. It comes out of the body through the urethra, the same tube through which urine passes. It's often confused with urine, but it's not. It's clear, has very little smell and leaves no stain on bed sheets. Chemically it's similar to male prostatic fluid, which makes up about 20 to 30% of a man's ejaculate.

Where does female ejaculation come from?

In a word, the G-spot. The G-spot is actually a full organ, complete with about 40 glands and ducts that manufacture female ejaculate and pump it into the urethra at ejaculation time. It's so similar to the male prostate that it's also known as the female prostate.

G-spot massage leads to Female Ejaculation

Female ejaculation is intimately connected with the G-spot, and with multiple orgasm. Although possible, its unlikely that clit massage will give you an ejaculation. Clit massage usually leads to a single orgasm without ejaculation.

When the woman gets this pee feeling, it's important to let it go and NOT tense her PC muscle. No pee will come out pee! It's simply your body readying itself for a female ejaculation, a natural, pleasurable female sexual sensation. Keep your PC muscle relaxed and let go of the 'pee feeling' during G-spot massage. Remember that no urine will come out.

Female Ejaculation

The most common barrier to reaching a G spot orgasm is the 'pee feeling'. Sometimes during G spot massage you'll get this feeling and you might want to stop straight away. Here's some tips to get around this (if you're male make sure to explain all this to your partner beforehand):
First, go to the bathroom and empty your bladder. When you start the G spot massage, you might get the pee feeling. But no urine will come out because you've just emptied her bladder, and the tube leading from the bladder (the urethra) is blocked off during orgasm.
Urine will only come out if you have very weak pelvic floor muscles, which is unlikely for most women.
What's happening is the build up to a female ejaculation. This is a clear or white substance similar to male semen that may shoot out from your urethral opening during orgasm. The ejaculation doesn't come from the bladder. It comes from the paraurethral glands, a collection of small glands parallel to or surrounding the urethra.
Female ejaculation is usually very, very pleasurable, and is most likely to happen during G spot massage. So put a towel or two down underneath you, and talk to your partner about it beforehand.

The way to get over the 'pee feeling' barrier is to just let go. You get this feeling because the paraurethral glands are beginning to fill the urethra with ejaculate. If this is a new sensation you'll probably think you're going to pee. The way to get over it is to actually let your body pee. But no pee will come out! Just let the tension build up and let the feeling go. If you can get over the pee feeling, there's a good chance you'll reach orgasm from G spot massage, and possibly multiple orgasm.
Before you start any of this, discuss it with your partner, especially about the possibility of an ejaculation. Guys, tell your partner you don't mind getting wet if she ejaculates, in fact, you'd find it very, very nice indeed. Girls if you're holding back because you don't want to wet him, just let it go! Most guys find this highly arousing. Put down a towel first in case.

Female ejaculation doesn't have the smell, taste or look of urine. However since it's a bodily fluid you should be as careful with it as you would with any other bodily fluid: semen, blood etc - i.e., don't ingest it or let it get into any open cuts on your body.

Again go to the bathroom to urinate before you do this and try to get over the pee feeling if you gets it. Don't give up easily - the more you try the more chance there is you'll enjoy it.