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The clit is a magic sex pleasure button for women. The clit (clitoris) is very like the penis except much smaller. If you stroke it the right way, it'll give a woman lots of pleasure, and orgasm. The clit is the only organ on either human body that has sex pleasure as its sole function. Its about 1cm long and found just above the opening to the vagina:

Like the penis, the clit has a foreskin and a shaft. But there are many ways to stroke the clit. Each woman is different. You'll have to figure out which way is the right way for your female partner. The absolute quickest way to learn is to get her to show you how she strokes her clit and then copy what she does.
Most women masturbate by stroking their clit. Basically what you want to do is copy the way she masturbates. However, she may not masturbate at all, or may not want to show you how. In this case you'll have to work it out by experimenting on her clit with different strokes.
Never go straight for her clit though. Always begin with lots and lots of foreplay and teasing. Then before you go near her clit, massage the area around it. This gives the clit time to fill with blood (like the penis), making it ready to be touched directly.

• Exercise 1: Work around her clit

  Massage the areas around her clit: thighs, belly, hips. Gradually work your way closer. Make circles around her clit but don't touch it. Do this for at least a few minutes.

  When you get to her clit, use the tip of one finger. Rub it lightly around in a circle, up and down, or left and right. It all depends on what she prefers. Everyone woman, and every clit, is different. In general though use a light touch at first.

• Exercise 2: Play with her clit

Once you're sure she's ready, place the tip of your finger onto her clit. This will be easier if her legs are apart. Begin by massaging her clit lightly. Stroke it in a circle at first. Then try the other directions, up/down or left/right. Ask her which she prefers.

Figure 2. Different clit strokes (click to enlarge)

Again the best way to stroke her clit is basically going to be the same way she masturbates - so get her to show you how. If she offers any advice, take it. Before you go near her clit make sure your nails are cut short. Its delicate, like the penis. Long or sharp nails can cause cuts.

If you don't get feedback from her, you may be stroking her clit completely wrong (don't forget what's right for one person is probably wrong for another). If you're doing it wrong she may not tell you, and you'll never get anywhere. Ask her which way she likes her clit stroked. Once you find the right clit stroke, pleasure is more likely, as is orgasm.