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What's a normal time length for having sex?

Submitted by infosex on Fri, 05/02/2008 - 00:03

What's a normal time length for having sex?

 

Two minutes. This is the average time that a healthy human male lasts, according to a study by Kinsey. So, anything you do to extend that time is a benefit. But the real question is not what is normal, but what you can do to control yourself so you can last as long as you want. See the male orgasm control section.
#1Submitted by Anonymous on Sun, 05/04/2008 - 05:43.

what are women suppose to do then if a male can only last two minutes

#2Submitted by infosex on Sun, 05/04/2008 - 13:35.

Well, you can try to talk to him (not during sex!) about it, and maybe mention in passing that you've been reading something in a magazine or on the net about how men can last longer during sex. Sometimes men can feel quite sensitive when they are told directly "you're not lasting long enough", so it's best to approach the subject gently. A lot of men feel it's a dent in their pride if they have to be told what to do. But if he does seem agreeable then you can show him what you've read here.

#3Submitted by Anonymous on Tue, 05/06/2008 - 09:09.

I came to this conclusion during afterplay, when my girlfriend told me that while she's certainly had the occasional orgasm, she never imagined that it could be reliable as sunrise or that "earth-shattering" could be a poetic attempt at direct description.

I'm no casanova. I've never managed to give her a G-spot orgasm, and sometimes I lose control earlier than intended. I just hold one thigh and read her reaction by the tenseness of her muscles and the rhythms of her breath, and use more or less the same pattern you use to push a kid on a swing higher and higher. She used to push me away when climax came so one day I tied her up and kept going... I don't have to cuff her anymore, she likes having multiple orgasms.

None of this is hard. All you have to do is listen to her body and push the swing.

I think men are lazy because she had perhaps half a dozen lovers before me and not a man jack among 'em could be bothered to know her pleasures and learn her rhythms. It's not a sample of one, either. My best friend's sister tells me all the things she wouldn't tell her mum, and I hear much the same story from her, re-inforced by occasional tales of carnal conquest in which she finds someone who does listen to a woman's body, only to discover that he's...sought after.

I think men are stupid because giving her a roaring orgasm is quite a good way to organise next weekend.