hey ok so i have a couple of questions because i'm going have oral sex with my girlfriend in a couple of weeks and this is the 1st time either of us has had oral sex wat do we do? another question is that she has braces can she still suck it? and another question is that i wanna give her alot of pleasure how do i do that? and is there anything that we have to do?
Ok you should read the section on oral sex on the clitoris. This will help you understand how the clit works. What would be much better for you is to use your fingers on her clit. That's a much simpler way of giving her pleasure. See the clit section.
As for her braces, ask her to be very, very careful. The skin of the penis is extremely delicate and you can easily be cut. Any sharp metal objects such as jewelry or braces can cause painful tears in the skin.
I would suggest that before she tries oral sex on you, put your finger or thumb into her mouth and get her to suck on that. Get her to practice a lot with your finger or thumb going in and out of her mouth. If your finger gets caught in the braces - then u got a problem!
Otherwise if you're both comfortable with it then she can give you oral sex. But ask her to go very slow and gentle at first.
You sound still fairly young,
You sound still fairly young, but braces shouldn't cause a problem even though alot of people think it will. As long as your penis goes directly past her teeth and into her mouth then there should be no problem. Start caressing (gently touching her all over) and when she's ready start playing with her clit, it's the round ball feeling part above the opening of her vagina. Oral sex: Play with her clit with your tongue.
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no im not young im 25 actually but i actually have another question so yea we both are virgins n we both are clean n is it ok if i cum on her and if i cum in her mouth n if she swallows it? and another question i have is that i wanna stick it in her anus but she doesnt want to do that but she wants to try it is there any style or any way i should do it and pleasure her at the same time because rite now thats my goal is to pleasure her because she has never been pleasured and she masturbates sometimes and another thing i wanna do is make her squirt what is a good way to do that and is that safe for her? and is it safe if i get her cum on me?
Anal sex is a BIG deal. It
Anal sex is a BIG deal. It can be EXTREMELY painful and dangerous if done incorrectly and if the receiver is not COMPLETELY relaxed. Clip your nails to the skin and start with the smalles of fingers and move up as she requests. Use LOTS of lubrication. Spit wont cut it with anal play. You will need real store bought lube. Take your time and go at HER speed, otherwise you WILL hurt her.
In regards to squirting.. Man, don't worry about making her squirt. It is a REALLY unusual thing for a woman to "squirt". It's really popular in porno right now which is making guys think it's a common thing. But it's not. The fact is, most often, what you're seeing is just pee. They make the acresses drink a TON of water ahead of time and that is what you are seeing. Don't put that stress on her.
Just focus on her clit and G-spot for now. Mainly her clit. Do the "A-B-C's" with your tongue... and pretent that your tongue is a candle flame.. Just focus on her and keep her relaxed. Let her close her eyes and fantasize!!