Well when i met my husband we made love and it was great, but now he's never in the mood. When he is, his performance is off. He is 30 and i'm 38. He'll be in the mood and all of a sudden he goes soft...
See i love to have sex with him but sometimes we do it only twice in a month, some times less.
What can i do to help him because he feel bad when it happens to him. Can you help me to make his sex drive stronger please...
As men age their sex drive naturally declines, very gradually year by year. 30 is still a very young age to be having problems with sex. One thing I would suggest is for him to take regular cardiovascular exercise. As you well know, erection is caused by blood flowing into the penis. A healthy heart helps pump blood more efficiently around the body. If he is unfit now, it make take a few weeks to see the effect. Also, ask him to read all the tips in the erectile dysfunction page.
If he is already physically fit and the erection problems still remain, he should see a doctor.
If your husband gets a
If your husband gets a "hard-on" and then goes soft after even a little fore play or teasing, then he needs to ejaculate more often. If he does it'll make his penis become more regular to getting hard. The more often he does it the more long it's going to take to lose the "hard-on".
Actually I think the reverse
Actually I think the reverse is true! If he is having problems with erections, he should come less. It takes time for sexual desire to build back up after an orgasm/ejaculation. If a man comes say 4 times in one day, he won't be ready for anything that night! So if anything I'd say he should come less...